Seven Basic Needs of a Wife

The first time I heard of this list was as a college student back in the early 80s. The “College and Career” Sunday school class that I attended decided to ask the Associate Pastor to lead this series and attendance during the series soared! All the ladies were dragging their boyfriends to Sunday school. It was VERY good and I still remember a number of the principles … and stories that the pastor told. The only disappointment was that the next semester we ran the complimentary series: Seven Basic Needs of a Husband. You guessed it! Attendance plummeted! I thought I’d at least post the seven needs here and then let anyone comment on or add an illustration.

     1)      She needs the stability, confidence and direction of a spiritual leader.

     2)      She needs to know that she is meeting vital needs in your life and work that no other woman can meet.

     3)      She needs to see and hear that you cherish her and that you delight in her as a person.

     4)      She needs to know that you understand her by protecting her in her area of limitations.

     5)      She needs to know that you enjoy setting aside quality time for intimate conversations.

     6)      She needs to know that you are aware of her presence even when your mind is on other matters.

     7)      She needs to see that you are making investments in her life that will expand and fulfill her world.